First night with my cutie pie

Hi all,
Yes so now that the bundle is delivered I will keep on ranting about how she doesn't let me sleep all night and how tired I am..
But frankly speaking this was one of the best experience of my life..
I was all night with my honey and she didn't harass me at all..
Ofcourse she was all mess the whole night and woke me every time I slid to nap.. but it was all natural and she didn't cry or do anything like other babies so.. I feel she is lot like me and wont harass me.. !!
Lots of things I want to share but I don't think I have words to express the feeling.. happy and blessed are just plain translations for the feeling but in no sense they express the exact meaning..
I think this is all for tonight!!

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The bundle of Joy

So the bundle of joy has finally arrived..
Its a cute girl.. name.. we are yet to decide..
Mom n daughter both r doing well!!

Posting this from the hospital itself...
Cant express in words.. what a great joy it is!!

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Will i become a good father

This post turns out to be musing of one of my recent posts..

I was on a different train of thought [sitting in a bus actually] and this question popped up..

Its not that I never thought of this but now as the date is near.. the question is more visible than ever.

As a kid when my parents used to scold me, deny me for things I wanted or hit me I used to think that whatever happens I won’t do this with my kids..

Now that I have grown up and I am understanding  the reasons behind their acts... I feel a lot of times would I ever be like my father..

I don’t think I could even do half of what my parents have done for me…

Even today my dad holds my back whenever I need. I never have to turn around to check if he is there or not.. I have so much faith in him..

Will my prove to be same to my kids s the question…

I know only time can tell this but I am already in doubt..

There were times when I used to freak out over this thought but now the  battle is On and it’s the time to use the shining armor mounted on me.. J

 

 

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i donot hate you ..

 

This post was in my mind an on my notes since a long time..

I found this image on Quora and since that moment I knew I want to blog it..

I have met so many people in my life some good many bad and remaining so mean that I would never want to meet them again..

But in professional world you meet at least 2 new people each day and there are 90 % chances that you won’t like this person.

But then you do not actually hate this guy/gal.. So what is the feeling then??

This image is the answer for the same feeling..

 

 

 

 

I know at least 4-5 such people for whom I can say this.. but the human in me won’t let me drink the water.. ;-)

 

 

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the Appendix

Hi,

Back again with a new post..

This idea was in my mind since last 2 months but I was not able to put it down..

Today as I am killing time I think I should pick this up..

It so happened had one fine day I felt excruciating pain in my abdomen…

I am a kidney stone patient and this disease is sort of chronic.. if one stone is removed there are chances of getting another stone …

But I felt as if this pain was different than usual. So I went to a doctor and he diagnosed it as Appendix infection..

He gave me some meds and a painkiller..

But then after 2-3 days I felt more pain and so we opted for a sonography report to confirm if the appendix needed to be removed.

It turned out to be kidney stone and I started treatment..

But within tht duration I experienced a very different thing..

I had seen a lot of people getting appendix removed.. but I never felt as if they are losing a body part.

Even I have got my 2 teeth extracted but I too never felt a feeling of ownership over those teeth.

Okay I still have the tooth with me but it was different. I didn’t feel bad about it..

But appendix was different.. I know its not a very useful part in body [I am also aware of the current debate over this] but still I didn’t want it to be remover.

The reason .. I am still not aware why I feel so but this is true..

This brings me thought of a mother who has to leave a child after he/she grows up..

its also a part of her body whom she nurtured with herself for first nine months and then too utmost care for the following years                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         ..

Now that I am on the verge of becoming a father .. I get this thought a lot of times if I would make a good parent or not.. but then that is topic for some other post..

Bbye till then!!

 

 

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The new year post

Hi All,

Back after quite a time. A lot had been happening since my last post.. but didn’t get time or rather didn’t feel like posting anything..

You know how lazy I am..

I spent a week at my home and then a week without wife in pune .. the experience was too good..

And the best part is that I am writing this on my way to home again.. I know this will be posted not before Monday or may be early but I am quite happy today..

There are a lot of reasons for the happiness… one of the reasons being that I will be with my wife when the  bundle of joy comes to me J

Today was my last day in office in the sense that now for almost a month I will be working from home.

Felt a bit odd for that..

I have a weird attachment to office and colleauges.sometimes I feel that I enjoy more with them than family..

My dear wifey also thinks so.. I know this is not ture because if this was the case then I wont hve opted for a isolate seat instead of the seat in cubicle where all sit…

I know this is hell of confusion of me about myself my mind and my choices..but then this is what defines me.. I m really happy to be what I am..

I know I have done lot of mistakes knowingly and unknowingly.. and I will continue to do so..

I am curious to know if I will remember all this when I grow old.. iused to write a diary in college and now when I read it I am not able to recall more than 50% of the incidents.

This is within 5-6 years of the happenings…what when I grow 50 yrs old and I am idle sitting in my office o home chair…will I be able to remember these days?? I don’t know..

May be this is one of the reasons I am writing this blog..

But I am not able to write everything here.. is till feel I would be more comfortable with a paper and a pen..but I cannot do so..

I think this is it for the post..

I am planning to cover a couple of plots I had thought ti kill more time in the journey .. J

 

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